Let me talk to the people who are thinking about starting a Discord server. Because Discord can either become a great community hang out or a full-blown psychological thriller. Ask me how I know. This isn't theory. This isn't something I read in a Reddit thread. This is lived experience and if my mistakes can help someone else avoid the same stress, confusing, and burnout, then it's worth talking about. This is straight up lessons. Rule #1: Loud, Helpful, and Friendly Does No