Why I Quit MLM (Even After Reaching the Top)

Whew....this one's been sitting in my heart for a while

I don't regret any part of my story, but I've also never fully shared the truth about why I quit MLM and what it really took to walk away

So, let's talk about it.

I started my journey in this space when I was 18 years old. Bright-eyed, full of dreams, and with zero clue what I was doing. But hungry to create something of my own.

And that's how I landed in my first-ever MLM

Mary Kay: The Beginning of the Hustle

I still remember holding that pink starter kit like it was gold.

I was only 18. I spent over $2000 on inventory, because that's what I was told would make me successful. I was promised glam, sisterhood, and the dream of driving that pink Cadillac.

But instead.... I was left with boxes of product I couldn't move, a credit card I couldn't pay off, and a growing sense that I had been sold more of a dream than a plan.

Still, I told myself: "This is just the beginning. You've got to try again.

It Works...Bit It Didn't

Next up: I Works. You know, the wraps, the greens, the hype. I was sold on the dream at 22 years old

Let me tell you one thing:

I did't work.

Not for me, anyway.

The auto-ship alone made it nearly impossible to gain loyal customers. People didn't want to commit to monthly purchases. And I didn't want to beg or pressure them.

It felt like I was fighting the system just to stay afloat.

Younique: fast Pay, Fast pain

When Younique came along in 2012 it felt like a breath of fresh air. Getting paid four hours after every sale. Yes please!

I went all in and eventually became a Pink Status Representative.

It felt like I was finally "making it"....Until I realized something heartbreaking: the community wasn't what I thought.

When I made the decision to step away from the company, I was bullied by other reps. People I thought were friends suddenly turned cold. Screenshots. Gossip. Subtle jabs.

I learned the hard way that not every "sisterhood" is built on support.

Scentsy: The Sweet Spot (Until It Wasn't)

Then came Scentsy and this one is different. In 2017 I joined the hype train of scentsy and let me tell you…..

I fell in love.

My family loved it.

We used the products daily.

I wasn't just selling; I was buying warmers for our home. For 7 years I was the wax girl. I was also very successful. Making my way through the ranks.

I built a team of over 500 people.

Scentsy was my full time job till I started selling insurance in 2020 and then scentsy became my side hustle even tho it was my side hustle….

It felt like my calling.

But right around the time we were moving into our new home, I felt it:

That heavy feeling in my heart.

The kinds that whisper, "This season is over."

I knew I had to let it all go. Both Scentsy and insurance.

Not because I failed.

But because God had something bigger for me.

Some people were upset.

But this time....no bulling. No blacklash.

Just a quiet goodbye.

What I Do Now (And Why It Feels So Right)

Now? I do this.

I've built a brand on my own terms.

I don't' have to invest thousands just to qualify.

I don't have to check in with upline chats or stress about ranks.

I'm not tied to monthly auto-ship, team drama, or unrealistic timeframes.

I don't sell to survive.

I share what I love and server others in process.

And most importantly?

I'm happy

I'm at peace.

And I help others build businesses that feel good too.

No pressure

No pretending

Just purpose.

If You're in the Thick of it....

If you're in a MLM right now and it feels heavy...I see you.

If you're tired of the pressure, the comparison, the fake friendships, and the endless buying just to keep your rank, you are not alone.

You're not a failure for wanting out.

you're not weak for wanting peace.

You are allowed to walk away from anything that no longer feels aligned, and step into something softer, more sustainable, and more you.

And when you do?

I'll be right here cheering you on, because there's whole other way to build, bestie.

And it starts with freedom